Are you addicted to love? Take this self-assessment to determine if you need help:

• Are you constantly seeking new romance or a significant other ?

• Do you have an inability or difficulty in being alone ?

• Do you consistently choose partners who are abusive or emotionally unavailable?

• Do you use romantic intensity to tolerate difficult experiences or emotions ?

• Are you missing out on important family, career or social experiences in order to maintain a romantic relationship?

• When in a relationship, do you often feel detached or unhappy, when out of a relationship, do you feel desperate and alone ?

• Are you unable to leave unhealthy relationships despite repeated promises to yourself or others?

• Do you find yourself  returning to previously unmanageable or painful relationships despite promises to yourself or others?

• Do you mistake sexual experiences and romantic intensity for love?

• Do you tolerate intolerable behavior from your partner just so you will have someone to “love” you?

Adapted from “Is It Love or Addiction” by Robert Weiss